COPING MECHANISMS

 My mom spent a lot of her time praying

It took me some time to realize it was her way of coping

My little brother cried when things didn’t go his way

My sister consumed calories (she’ll never admit that though)

These things brought them comfort

Prayer kept my mom hopeful

Crying made my little brother think he had a chance 

at getting what he wanted

He knew everyone hated the noise he made

I, on the other hand had nothing



At least nothing consistent

I wrote sometimes, cried at three am, ate sometimes

But mostly I sat back and watched the chaos unfold

People never really understood what I meant

When I said I was getting too comfortable?

It did not mean my life was going too well

It meant I was accepting the tragedy too nonchalantly

As if I somehow thought I was living somebody else’s life

And I was waiting for them to fix the mess.

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